Loving Yourself

Dear one, hello and glad tidings. We wish to discuss the topic of self respect and self affirmation. Again we can feel some of you roll your eyes. “Another lecture on loving myself?”, you wonder. We smile because you think that you DO love yourself, and then we see how you have negative self talk, how you make choices not because of what you want in your deepest heart, but because of what other people want, choices for what seems easiest, to avoid conflict, and honesty with yourself. Now we know this is not an easy topic. We can feel you squirming. You don’t want to read this or hear this. But we assure you this is not an admonishment! We, who love you so so very dearly and truly, wish to offer you the opportunity and again, the permission, to love yourself not just in theory as a friend or a partner who you “love” but don’t display that love through your actions towards that relationship. Do you love yourself in words or in deeds, or both? When you allow yourself to truly love yourself, you will see your outer world begin to match your inner world, and this can only happen one choice point at a time, to bring you closer and closer to that which your heart desires. And you may read these words and feel frustrated that you have ended up so far from where you wish to be or go, but we say, knowing this is a choice. This is being honest with your heart. Nothing is ever too late or too far gone. Do what is most comfortable, make one small pivot. Or what is most uncomfortable and one giant leap. But in either case, the choice should resonate fully with your whole body mind and soul, and there is no rush to do this. Even if you feel certain changes are imminent, this is you previewing what is to come. Allow yourself the time and space to arrive there, as this heals and shifts across all timelines, past and future. Where you are now, where we all are now is a crossroads, a transition from linear ego based decision making factoring all outside influences, and instead shifting to a world of choices built out of self love within the heart. This is not self-ish, this is self love. The difference is that which most resonates in your heart soul and mind, the grand trifecta, will also resonate with the outside world, not at the expense of the outside world. As each begins to do this, the collective glue is held together by a very different frequency than now, one not based in separation, but instead the collective wholeness of the one heart of source, of which you are a part, acting here on earth as an ambassador of creativity. You will see this change gradually, and erratically at first and then much more seamlessly as all begin to gravitate to this way of living from the heart, as it feels so much more natural and easy than anything before. Right now there is still the issue of the outside world rebutting the heart centered choices in some aspects, but this is a larger collective ego resistance, much as you have felt that within yourself and have negotiated this and reprogrammed your ego to love instead of simply survive at all costs. This will and is happening on a global scale. What begins within your one heart is reflected to the entire planet. So trust that the work you are doing in your one heart has far far reaching implications. This need not be your motivation, or add pressure to what you’re already doing, living as a human on earth (not easy!) but we tell you this to show you that what you are doing is important, even if you cannot see that importance reflected right away or even for a long while, externally. But we do not think you will have to wait so long. In fact we know if you are reading this you are already seeing signs of this. The universe conspires to bring you what your heart desires! Simply ask! Do not be afraid! Ask and trust that your order has been received ;) And in the meantime, enjoy the process dear ones, for the process is the meat of it. The process is what you came here for. Not the results. The results are the reward of allowing yourself to shift and change through the process of ego separation to open heart frequency. What a shift! We can’t wait to see what you do or where you will go! This is all so very exciting! We love you so much. We wish for you to love yourselves as much as we love you, which is infinitely. Thank you so much for sticking around to the end of this message! We hope that what made you squirm earlier now fills you with elation! You are god’s gift. You are always loved. Always and forever. In infinite gratitude to you, namaste.